Hi KA - Thank you so much for the affirmation, yes, I feel very much that the principles of dbing are here to stay for me. I guess I had so many bad habits to start with that there is so much to 'unlearn'

I get what you are saying about expectations and detachment, too. For most of us, the detachment is tougher that lowering expectations, hence the chosen path. I guess greater detachment will come in time.

I'm re-reading Wonder/Michele's link on trust - it so darned close to the bone.

NG called this morning to say he's coming home a day sooner, tonite. Wahoo Slowly


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