slowly, glad your facial went well. 3 phones calls sounds pretty nice. you are doing such a good job. i have read so many times where reconciliations starts and DBing goes out the window. some ppl feel it is finally over. it is a trap and you are doing everything you can to avoid it. it is wonderful!
about expectations, i kinda feel a little different about that. i think if you expect the worst, you will get the worst, but if you expect the best, you will get the best. this works well i think if you have really gotten detaching down solid. because obviously you are not always going to get what you expect, but if you are detached enough, you dont get emotionally wrapped in bad feelings when you dont get the best.
Michele wrote about this study in the begining of DB where they randomly chose a sample of a few students in a few classes. and they told the teachers that these students were way above average for thier age. these random group of students all performed much better then the other students because the teachers expected them too.
and i think most ppl try to live up to what is expected of them, if they really know what is expected of them. no one likes to dissapoint others.
ok, it must be getting late, because i am rambling.
