Quote: But why shouldn't we expect good things from the people we love? We deserve to expect good things. I know, I know. I'm having a hard time now because I have zeroed my expectations and now that H wants to be included again, I neglect to do so. Just because I don't expect him to be around or to care. Downer, sorry.I'm trying.
Mellanie - I agree to a point. I have a differing opinion of expectations as I think there is a time and place for reasonable, realistic expectations. But I'm still debating this w/NYS. I do know that there is a time and place when expectations are a bad thing, such as in the DBing process.
I'll see if I can get my thoughts together better to express my perspective in a way that makes sense. I can't seem to do that right now.............TJ