Michelle, you are very helpful in sharing your thoughts. About expectations...My W commented that we just do not have fun. Well, as I read your message about expectations and communication these expectations to your S: when and if we do all this, our live become somewhat like a business! It is always about TAKING care of stuff, resolving issues, handling satiations. Ironically, W and do it great! We are good business partners. But this business partnership takes away the FUN! It is very frustrating subject. Sometimes I wish we had more arguments as to how we run our family; we would have at least non emotional issue to work on. Thanks.
Michelle, I would appreciate if you read my story. Your opinion and advice would be so appreciated.