Hi midwest - Sorry about not picking up on this sooner
Quote: Do you have other books that are influencing your journey? I love books, so I thot there might be some more to explore.
Early on, I got hooked on Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass. Of course Michele's DR, and SSM. Mars/Venus.
I also saw this list over at eyesopened's thread in the KLA section, and thought it may be useful
Quote: Books That Have Helped Me in Addition to the KLA CDs The Divorce Remedy by Michele Weiner-Davis Feeliing Good and The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns, MD (cognitive behavior therapy for changing thought patterns) For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn (information about men and marriage based on surveys) Getting Through to the Man You Love by Michele Weiner-Davis His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley (the only relationship book I could get my H to read, but H's response to it gave me a starting point and motivation to make my own changes in our marriage) Love is Never Enough by Aaron Beck (cognitive behavior therapy applied to couples) Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas (Christian book on marriage that I often turn to for motivation when feeling discouraged) The Sex-Starved Marriage by Michele Weiner-Davis What Could He Be Thinking? by Michael Gurian (book about differences between men and women with information about differences in male and female brains - this book helped me learn to stop personalizing some of the things H does) Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by John Gottman (also The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work --Gottman has studied and observed couples using "rigorous scientific procedures"--these books have information on stonewalling, why men are more likely to stonewall and the effect on their spouses and marriage)
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