I see myself slipping back into control mode at the slightest provocation - ugh Which is why I'm still here - I think this is now a lifetime of dbing - there are so many more lessons for me to learn
I can sure relate to this. Sometimes for me it's "control mode" but often it's "impatient, non-present, short-tempered mode" and occasionally it's "ASSuming the worst" mode. I could go on. It's nearly always as a result of stress or not taking good care of myself.
I feel like I NEED DB'ing in my life every day!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.