Wonder - Thanks so much for the validation, like most self-discoveries, it is good to know I'm not alone
Quote: So I think asking the question--what part of this is about me and what needs I have, is a really valid one.
Yes, and I really, really need to get my stuff out here to be able to process properly, it seems. Being honest with myself feels like a luxury, even now. For so much of my life, doing the next indicated seemed to be what I was all about - so being forced to pause and reflect still feels a little strange. Good, but strange.
