KMP here, just trying to return the great feedback you've been giving me in my thread.
I don't know enough of your background to give much advice, and as a newcomer I'm simply a novice at this. Have you tried the phone coaching? I did 1 session and it helped tremendously, I have another scheduled today.
Also, I've mentioned CODA for codependents. Don't know if you know anything about it, nor do I have any idea whether you fit the traits, but it's helped me try to identify my behaviors and to try to work on specific solutions. I've just started that in the past month. Check out my thread - "Here's where I'm starting my DB journey"
Do what you've always done, you'll get what you always got.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB24&Number=896649&fpart=&PHPSESSID=
