Sonni,

Welcome! How great that h is coming home! I'm sure it's hard not to focus on the "whys" of his wanting to return but cheeseless tunnel at this point, no?

I need to catch up a bit more on your sitch before offering up too much advice...keep doing what you're doing to draw him closer and remember that DB "rules" apply in full force during piecing, too! It's a tough but worth it phase!

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.