GEL, Some people never realize that they are doing something hurtful to someone else. If the error is pointed out the response is that the injured party is too sensitive or the "I was just kidding can't you take a joke" rational is evoked. It is an emotionally adept person who catches a hurtful action and takes prompt steps to repair damage done. Great HP !
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"