GGB, I've been closed for business for 5 months now...haven't you heard?!?
Oh and Lillie, I find it amusing that you think there is a deeper meaning to my H's comments. He would be the first to crack up laughing at the thought of him having a "deep" side. (except in the spiritual realm, of course, but did I really need to say that) He maintains that he is the most What you see is what you get kinda guy there is. I know this is not always true, but I still don't know if your scenario could possibly be true. He's not in touch with his emotions at all and if I asked him if he was worried about me, he'd probably START worrying right at that moment because I had put the thought in his brain.
I do know he's worried as of today. I am a silent sufferer type of person (when it comes to pain, definitely not sex, lol) and I finally told him today a little of how I feel. He is a complainer when ill, so he thinks that if a person is not saying much that there is nothing to talk about.
Anyway, I just wanted to write and say that you give my H too much credit. Or maybe you are right and there is more to ol MrPot than I realize.