I love your mini goals. I think I'm going to adopt those for myself if you don't mind.
Don't you just hate second guessing what they are telling you? I do the same thing when H tells me he is going here or talking to so and so and I'm thinking (yeah right). I just want it to go back to the way it was when I could trust him to go to the store or be on the phone for a long period of time and didn't have to worry about it.
Hopefully we all will get there some day soon!!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years