Last night...H said that he was leaving the office already. And that was 8 pm. At about 9.15 pm, he called and said that he just left, and that he was going out to have a bite with X (female colleague from office), and then he'll be back. I have to admit a terrible thought did cross my mind. Is it really X that he is with or is it the OW?? H only got back at about 10.15 pm...Remembering DBing, I didn't query him about his dinner with X (or was it OW?)...but he did seemed rather cheery when he got back. Asked me "Are you waiting for me to come home for ML?" I was watching telly at that time, and answered with a quick NO... He had his shower, read his book while drinking some soup that I had left him. We got into bed after my movie ended....and he offered himself for . Couldn't resist...and we did it. As usual, immediately after ML, he went off to look for more food in the kitchen. He came back with a toasted cheese sandwich and some fruit. He chatted with me while he ate. Told me about his training session in the day,...the trainer was one hot chick, and he and his colleague was sending messages to each other commenting on the hot chick, and how they were undressing her mentally... (This is a glimpse of my old H. He always tells me about any hot chicks that he has seen...) I listened and grinned at such remarks, as usual. And then talked about his other colleagues blah blah blah. Then there was this lady, and I was wondering who she was and he said "she is you-know-who's boss. You don't want me to mention her name, right". I kept quiet...knowing that he meant that this lady was OW's boss. There was silence a few seconds, then I piped up and commented about something on another colleague of his...and our conversation continued on other things...A small boo-boo on my part. I told him what S5 said, which was "I want a little brother and a little sister". This made H very very uneasy as he was very very quiet. I kept really really quiet after that. Later, he mentioned that he would be late today as he would be going out with another colleague.
He has ok-ed a dinner do with our mutual friends for his birthday. So, I am organising that.
Other mini-goal, a small dinner with his mom on his actual birthday. This one...I don't know if he will ok it or not...as he has not spoken to his mom for ages...She is still upset with him. Will see...
. Couldn't resist...and we did it. As usual, immediately after ML, he went off to look for more food in the kitchen. He came back with a toasted cheese sandwich and some fruit. He chatted with me while he ate. Told me about his training session in the day,...the trainer was one hot chick, and he and his colleague was sending messages to each other commenting on the hot chick, and how they were undressing her mentally... (This is a glimpse of my old H. He always tells me about any hot chicks that he has seen...) I listened and grinned at such remarks, as usual. And then talked about his other colleagues blah blah blah. Then there was this lady, and I was wondering who she was and he said "she is you-know-who's boss. You don't want me to mention her name, right". I kept quiet...knowing that he meant that this lady was OW's boss. There was silence a few seconds, then I piped up and commented about something on another colleague of his...and our conversation continued on other things...A small boo-boo on my part. I told him what S5 said, which was "I want a little brother and a little sister". This made H very very uneasy as he was very very quiet. I kept really really quiet after that. Later, he mentioned that he would be late today as he would be going out with another colleague. 
