Sounds like your H is coming around, slowly. Glad to see you don't let his strange comments get to you. I've been in the same boat this last week...with the strange comments from H, and I've also been able to block them out or not let them affect me ( but they do peak my curiosity ).
He's been spitting the comments out ever since Monday...the day i started being casual around him ( and still am ). No more anger, silence...nothing, and now i get these strange comments:
Monday he tells me about his weekend and says he was thinking about me a lot, so much so he had to do damage control with OW. He called her by my name TWICE. ( no reaction from me...except a funny smirk saying "and how did that go over? "). It sounded like she was upset.
Then in same convo...tells me about another foreigner that he knows, or is pretty sure, that is fooling around on his wife ( like I need to hear this story from my H ).
Then last night he asks if I got my letter from an old boyfriend ( parents said a letter showed up, after 7 years of not talking to this ex, they were supposed to forward it to me, but haven't yet ). After I tell H i didn't get it, he asks if I still have feelings for old boyfriend. Jealousy? curiosity?
then H asks if I've talked to my parents lately, and what about. this is odd because 2 weeks ago he said he never wanted me to bring up my parents to him again, but this is 2nd time HE has asked about them.
More details are on my thread. In the past I've gotten the same ones as you, before or after I ML with H...this doesn't change anything, I don't want to confuse you,...blah, blah.
Somedays i feel like telling my H about this BB...so he can see that he's not the only one acting this way. And that what he's spitting out of his mouth is word for word the same as so many WAS's. That he can read DB and see that the grass is never greener on the other side, that you can change, that we can fix our problems. But I don't think I ever will...it's my place to vent and DB is more for me.
Keep ignoring the comments...it seems to have been working for me too take care glj
