Hey Anna and YoYo - I too am H@rny for my H. Everytime I look at him I get that usual ache so i know exactly where you are coming from. We sound like a bunch of desperates but then we are (desperate for our H's). Yoyo sounds like you did some great work and O.K. things aren't as great now as when you were at the beach but hey they are still better than they were a little while ago. I think and I know it's hard you have to stop biting when he says things to you. Either just ignore him or agree you know it all so I am not telling you anything you don't know just reminding you of it. Will keep watching what is happening with you and I will be waiting for the next up in your sitch. Take care....Kim Oh and I am from Melbourne in answer to your question on my thread.