Yes - PMA is a must. Detaching is a must. My H is really quite confused, or rather like to torment me. Last night, he initiated s@x and then said "I am still going to leave you". He said it a few times. I got fed-up and asked "So, you are leaving me?" Then he said "No!". I mean WTF is this guy doing? Later he said "This potential job sounds good. Whether you are coming or OW is coming, or not coming, I am going!". Again, WTF?? I asked him "Do you want me to pack your things now for you to go?" to which he kept quiet. I actually told him that aliens have abducted my H's brain, and he is not my H. H answered "only the part that deals with women, the part on how I do my job...it's great" When am I gonna get my old H back?? I am so used to all this nonsense that I brush it off and not let it bother me. How can I? It's so frequent. Really have to totally IGNORE what the WAS says...

Anyway, H didn't go to the premiere with us. So, my mini-goal was not achieved. Will be going to H's work vicinity today. Perhaps my mini-goal for today is to meet him for dinner? We'll see. But he is rather afraid that I may "bump" into OW....that would be rather exciting..won't it?

I have reached the point that I just want to ignore H. Perhaps just have him for LOL