It sounds like you did have a great trip. I'm glad you were all able to get away. Yes, I backslide at times to, but I think that will happen less and less the more positive signs you see from H. And it sounds like he gave you some real good positives this weekend and some nice compliments about being "sexy". It sounds like he is also trying and I think a little time alone for him is good, at least you were away on holiday and you know his time away was alone time. Alone time and space are needed. I know at first I was all over my H, I was not giving him any space then I read DBing the D remedy. Space is needed. So overall I think these are all positive signs. Keep up your PMA. I hope your H is successful in finding a new job! This might take awhile so think about this:
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..."Your mom looks quite sexy doesn't she?
"No, I want you and the boys. We can work on us again. I love you!"
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This are great things to continue to replay in your mind when you find yourself slipping a bit.
