I'm on a mission to watch out for my fellow DBers's....please,please...be careful if you are being intimate with your H.
In the last 12 hours ( on my thread ) i have found out that my H has a viral infection (STD )...he's had symptoms for 2 weeks. I just got checked out, no visible signs ( and if i did have visible signs I'd be facing a C-section right now )...but I'm not in the clear yet, as there is an incubation period. Condoms don't prevent the spread of this STD, as it can be transmitted by contact with the general genital area.
So please, please be careful with your health...you don't want this same nightmare to happen to you.