Am still keeping the truth from my dad. Dad's quite "blurr" - you could be discussing it in front of him, and he would not have "heard" it correctly - which is quite good. Found out over the weekend that all my sisters knew about my H and the OW waaaayyy in February (I only found out in April). They actually texted him and warned him that he would never ever see his boys, and apparently he told them that he has already settled the "problem", which of course he didn't. My sisters found out because their friend saw him with the OW, arms around her waist and he actually hit her butt...in an apartment show unit. They were actually looking at properties!! Now, I am still wondering if he actually bought something with her!!! Anyways, finally told my sisters the details..they were rather appalled at the extent of H's deceit and lies. They said that they didn't tell me because he said he settled it. They did say that they find it funny to look him in the eye... As most of you said, H may find it difficult to "Come Back" because all the anger that he may receive from our relatives and friends. In spite of all, my mom still talks to him in a civil way, so, I don't know if that is really a factor of H finding difficulty. I think it is more about himself...deep within, he is still thinking of the "loss" of the "love his life" instead of focussing on his responsibilities and realities of life.
H said he went for an informal interview over the weekend for another job at a foreign country??? I really don't know what he is his intentions. To get away from her? Or to get away from us?
And, he said he will going to the beach resort with us...we'll see if he chickens out in the last minute!
