good question! Do I want a man too weak to face the consequences of his actions???
My H says that currently he can face the consequences of his actions regarding what people are saying to him about OW and what he is doing. But if the role reversed, and we worked on this M, could he take the consequences then? It was a question he asked while I was in Canada on the phone... and I said we can't worry about what other people think, but admitted I wouldn't want anyone to think of me as stupid for taking H back. But with family it's harder... and I come from a european catholic family, and he knows them very well...it would be a huge uphill battle with them and he may be too weak for the challenge.
