Hey Yo-Yo, I know how you feel and it is confusing....We do all the hardwork when they are the one that caused the problem. Anyway I guess we wouldnt be here if we didn't love them and that is the problem. The other person giving you advice sounds good I would listen to them. I dont feel I have experienced enough of DB to offer advice just words of understanding and encouragement. Keep trying but maybe somehow stop him in a nice way about the OW talks as that hurts too much to hear about OW. Maybe say I understand it is hard for you but I cant help you with OW. It is a situation you and only you can sort out but I hope for all our sakes you work it out soon. Maybe that's too much but I am sure someone will say I am wrong if i have veered off the track. Goodluck and know some of us are still learning too. It's sheer hard work but hopefully it will give us all much better futures which ever way they work out....Kim
