I don't know..perhaps my H is slightly different from normal WASs? I know we shouldn't say ILY, but somehow, I feel that my H wants me to tell him that IL him and I need and want him. Should I say it to him, and see his reaction? I somehow sense that he feels that if he has tried to give OW up, and I should be happy and shower him with love and all....I really don't know anymore..