Read your post. I just recently got in touch with a guy friend that I lost touch with 5 years ago, just after I was married. We were great friends, spent alot of time together, and parted on a sour note. I called him 2 weeks ago, and it was like we had been talking just the week prior. It felt so good to talk to him, and to laugh again, and just to get caught up. So much has changed in that amount of time, and I regret that I let that friendship sizzle out. I can't say that your sitch will be like mine, but I think you might be surprised.