Wow, your H just loves to push things with what he says. Don't know how you're doing it, staying so calm in front of him. Must drive him nuts.
My H was always the kind of guy to make some remarks when there was a good looking woman on the TV etc, and it never bothered me. But last week he did it a few times, and I guess because he's with OW, his comments got to me but I didn't show it. The funny thing is that he's not physically attracted to OW, she's really nothing to look at. He always has said that I'm the most attractive woman he's ever met ( but I think this makes him insecure too and he hates when i talk to other men ), and that he has still been attracted to me while pregnant. He loves when I dress up. I could never picture OW in heels, skirt or dress, with make up....she's borderline tom-boy at the age of 28? I think.
Enough about my sitch ( i could go on forever )... Sounds intersting that your H is thinking about changing jobs. But until it happens I wouldn't think too much of what he says since his brain has been full of marbles the last few days.
Keep us posted if he actually goes thru with the things he's been saying and take care of yourself glj
