Anna - I really don't know what is his motivation of telling me all those things. Perhaps to push for a reaction so great from me that I will shout "GET OUT! GET OUT!"?, which I won't, of course. I don't really don't know what are his intentions.
He does seem like he has lost his marbles. Yesterday, called me at work and told me that he wants to be a monk, and wonders if he can bring a partner (OW???) with him. I actually sent him a website that assesses one's readiness to be a monk, friar, nun etc. Also sent him a contact for a spiritual retreat to the Himalayas in India. Don't know if he considered that as being sacarstic. On my part, if you tell me you want to be a monk, okay, I'll be the supporting wife, and get you the necessary information.
Last night, he went out for drinks. And he called me up at home and said "You and OW are in trouble. I just had a few drinks, and I am looking at every single woman that walked past!". I answered very calmly "I am not in trouble. OW is. Cheat on me with her or with some other woman, makes no difference. Anyway, I don't really care. Just make sure you deposit money to pay for the mortgage". And then he came home " gave me a peck on my lips, and went off. Not long later, came and slept next to me and wanted to talk and asked if I wanted s#x. I was like "no...I am sleeping". I am so numb already, I really don't want to listen to his nonsense. If he wants to talk about his day - fine. But about his floosy...no can do. And he wonders "why are you sooo upset?". I am like "Hello? If you want to talk about her, can you please find a friend to talk to? I really don't want to hear about it. I am not your friend. I am your wife!". Anyway, we did talk abit about the boys.
This morning, he seems to have gotten a little bit of his marbles back. Talking more sensibly...about his job, his co-worker, and him finding an alternative job....
