GLJ - My FIL was also a serial cheater. According to my MIL, she had to experience three horrible episodes. The first one was when she was pregnant with my H. She forgave him over and over again. Until the most recent one..whe she found out, he had two children with the OW. She just couldn't tolerate any further. So, for my MIL, it was a double blow. First, her H and now her son. She never ever thought that her beloved son, who seemed so smart and wise would fall into his father's footsteps. Whenever my H and I talked about our R and how kids would be affected etc, and how he would "forget" about his kids once he goes off with the OW, he would launch into a mega-defense. All I had to say was "well, you want to like your father...well, what has your father given you?" And that would normally shut him up.
You just take care of your baby...Once baby comes..all your energy and mind will be focussed on the baby. Just forget your H for the time-being. Perhaps he may be so overwhelmed by your new baby, it may jolt him his senses. Take good care, okay?
