Hi GLJ - Am in Malaysia. About 5 hours flight to Taiwan. Families (both mine and in-laws) are very supportive of me. MIL just told me that she is disgusted with her son...which in a way, is kinda sad for H. He was quite a mommy's boy.
Sorry to hear that you had to go through this alone in a foreign country and have a little one on the way. Must be really quite hard. Hope you can hang in there and hopefully your H will come to his senses soon. Or perhaps a big elephant might fall from the sky and break his skull and knock some senses into his brain? (sorry for the corny humour)
I think my H is kinda unsure about this. Think he is not really confident that he can keep away from OW. The worse is that she works in the same company. So, the pull is sooo great. Even before he said he broke off with her, he was swinging like a pendulum. Wanting her one minute, and then the family the next. Your H sounds very much similar in this aspect.
I am really quite tired of the whole situation...trying to be nice and understanding to his pain when he has hurt me so much. *sigh* ...Sherry said that it would be even harder than before...but I am not going to dwell too much on this...and continue to GAL and have PMA.
GLJ - will catch up with you later...am rushing off to lunch now.
