Kinda went thru the same thing...when i was back in Canada for a break from all this drama, and when my H said he wanted to work on us and stop with OW he had the nerve to bring up the OW...." She's a good person, and about to get hurt"...to ME. I said I don't really care about her getting hurt, because somewhere along the line she wasn't thinking about me in all of this...that I was going to get hurt. H ended that call pretty quickly, and I called him back and said look ...what did u expect, that's hard for me to hear u talk like that about her.
Well that was a month ago...and he's back with her after I came back and he changed his tune. I really hope for u that your H does pull his head out of his a$$, mine doesn't seem like he's going to, and still doubt it will happen when the baby is born. He just broke our living arrangement...which was no more back and forth...either he sleeps here at night or at her place. Well he didn't come home this weekend, after crying last weekend that this was the place he wanted to be in case something happened ( labour ) in the middle of the night.
BTW I read one of your posts to someone else that u r in Asia...me too. I'm in Taiwan. How about u? ( if u don't mind me asking ). I find this all much harder to deal with because I'm away from my family in Canada... just that extra touch of loneliness.
