H called me up at work. First time, asked me how I was..gave him a short answer that I was fine, and said bye. He called me again about 5 minutes later...and told me that he was tired of the sitch. I asked if anyone had called him up to lecture him. He said no. He said he is contemplating of an overseas posting to clear his mind abit. We continued our conversation over IM. He said he is in a mess, and I told him that I felt sorry for him for feeling that way. I mean, H was always a very decisive person; and now reduced to an emotional wreck. He did say that he missed us more than the OW when he was away on his business trip. Don't know how true but will take it as the truth. He also said that he felt that it was no longer something between him and the OW, it seems to be more of him alone. I agreed with him, and suggested that he talked to someone that could just listen to him impartially. Rather than friends or relatives whom will be biased. He thanked me for my support of his "mess", and told me to remind him to not look at any more girls if he get out of this alive! Told him that he shouldn't make his decision now, considering that he isn't himself.
