I just sent another email to H. Telling him that I would prefer him to stay at home while he decides who to be with, me or the OW. Told him that I don't want the kids hurt unnecessarily.
And if he leaves, then it would mean that he chose her. And the kids and I can get over the hurt, rebuild our lives thereafter.
Basically, I think I have given him the go-ahead to continue to see the OW while still living at home? Am I a doormat?
But he may not want to live at home too. He says he may want to give up the two women??? Somehow think that is baloney...perhaps it's easier to say that, and then go to the OW rather than tell me straight to my face that he wants to leave me.
