Hi, you will probably find alot of skeltons. So far my H has got a new cell phone using her address, and also opened a bank account w/ her name on it. They have only been talking for 2 months and only seeing each other on weekends and talking on phone. I guess we have to let them learn themselves and fall and hit hard. I wish you luck. I wish they would realize how much it hurts the kids. They just don't get it do they?