Got another bombshell on Friday. Found out the OW is in-fact working in the SAME company!!!
All the lies that she was in another state!!! I cannot believe all the lies that he concocted. H said that he didn’t want matters to be worse than it is already. I mean what can it be worse than me finding out the truth by myself, and knowing that he lied on top of lies? I mean he has already told me the heart-wrenching statement of “I LOVE HER” already and even told me that he wants to leave us. That already stabbed me with the biggest knife already. So, I don’t see why the other truths will make matters worse. You know…I was recovering from all this, my wound was healing, and then another knife struck on Friday (13th May….) and I need to re-start the healing process… *sigh*
I felt sooooo stupid, some more wondering if H would be moving to the other state where OW stays. Wondering where H would be staying if he moved out. Now, that’s not really a factor is it? H could always move in with her. And he was building on the lies too… with the assurance of “Don’t worry, I won’t be going over to that state”. Of course I needn't have to worry ...because she is there sitting nicely in his office waiting for him. All these while, I kept pondering and pondering “how can a 6 /7 month relationship that H sees about once a month be sooooooo serious and hot”. *sigh* . Now, with her being in his office day and night. Of course ...he sees her more than he sees me or the boys. Of course she will have his heart more than the three of us combined. The hours that he spends with all three of us is less than the time he spends with her. Now, it really made sense. No wonder it is sooooo difficult for him to cut the ties with her. At the rate he spends his time in the office, she does have more link to him than us. I queried jokingly some time back if H would have some hanky-panky with a co-worker, and his answer was “ I am more professional than that” !!!
I don't know if the other co-workers knows. I cannot believe that H actually would risk his reputation and job for this thing with the OW. Some companies would ask one or the other to leave the company if found out.
And speaking of her…how can H say that she doesn’t know he is married? That is a load of baloney that I can make enough sandwiches for the whole World. I mean half of his company has seen me and the boys. Also, she doesn’t want to break-up a family? That little witch is very clearly OUT THERE to break a family. The fact that she is waiting for him to choose is for H to choose her. What for wait if she thinks otherwise???
I can't stand all these lies....I was really upset on Friday night...couldn't sleep the whole night. I know I shouldn't have but I called H up on Sat morning to tell him that I know the truth...(H left for a business trip on Friday). I am wondering how many more skeletons I am going to discover...
