Not too sure if I did the right thing...but considering he will be "deciding" on this trip. I wrote him a letter and included the article "31 reasons to stop your affair" into his travelling bag. I know it is against DB'ing to "force" H to read stuff, but he did tell me that he wants to read the article, so, I am not really forcing. I know I know, it is still not the "right" DB'ing technique.
Anyways, didn't really say much in my letter. Told him that originally, I wanted to write a long and soppy letter but decided against it because he would be fed-up by the time he reached the middle of it, plus all that needs to be said, has been said and require no more words. Just told him that I love him, and just want him to be happy... But I did give a short statement that sounded like a lecture..I said " Why would you want to prove them RIGHT that you are a chip of the old block? Wouldn't it be more challenging to prove them WRONG?" (H's father had an affair and two kids from the affair. His parents' divorced)And I apologised for lecturing, and told him to take care.
Again...putting on my WAITING HAT to see what's his reactions to all this....patience GIRL...
