Well, where do I start? It has been two weeks and no calls from EA's ex-BF. Yep, dodged the bullet! Not sure how but will not forget the lesson learned in that nightmare. My W has been in Palm Springs at a pageant for the last two weeks. In that time I have GAL as much a person could. My 3 S and I have been very, very busy. We have done so much together, even teaching the S6 to swim! It got to the point that my W is jealous of all we are doing while she is gone. That was the plan! See, she has been on vacation for almost 30 days this year so the boys and I have learned to work great together. So much so that I think it will be hard when my W returns. There is one other thing that will make it hard to. She got her upper lip injected with collagen the day before she left and made up this incredibly elaborate story about how she got a "fat lip". I found the plastic surgeons card and a map to his office so she isn't fooling anyone. I kindly gave her several chances to "come clean" in which she lied right to my face. No problem, I just dropped it. What was the point of an interrogation? I am dying to hear her excuse of why she still has a "fat lip" two weeks later. That ought to be a real "whopper" of a story. Anyway, just another example of her inability to be honest. It's crap like this that kills my attempts to trust her. She simply proves time and time again that I can't.
The good thing is that I really feel good and my boys haven't asked when W was coming home. I was starting to get concerned and asked them if she had texted or called them and they said,"Not today but she did the other day, so what". That was a relief to hear so I dropped it. My friends have invited me out many times during my W abscence. It was always to "family" functions so my boys were welcome as well. In fact, they made some new friends out of all of this.
My only concern now is how my W will handle the ambivalence that I have developed towards her. It makes me feel better but I think she is going to be hurt by it. I am a miserable actor so it will show immediately. Wish me luck.
