My sitch may become infinitely more complicated shortly. Things have been up and down but some good revelations have been made lately. Here is where it goes down hill. A former LF/EA broke up with her boyfriend and now he is threatening to call my W with all the gory details. He is pretty much a P.I. from all the ways he has acquired data. Anywho, if he and my W talk it is going to get very ugly. I mage a huge mistake by not staying on the high road and it looks like I will pay dearly for it. At the time it felt like I was simply "evening the score" with my WAW but now I feel absolutely terrible for what I did.
I guess the lesson here is to ALWAYS stay on the high road no matter what your SO may be doing. I broke the rule and it appears as though I will pay the price. I deserve it, don't think I see it as unfair at all. Just extremely disapponted in myself. Maybe they will never talk but I am not counting on it. I have contemplated "coming clean" but the details would be too hard on my W. Way too hard. What would you do?