Been away for awhile trying to make things better. Just got the same old roller coaster. I took care of the legal issues with my car last week. It worked out extremely well considering what could have happened. The problem was that I got to read what my W said in the police report. She lied her tail off in trying to get me arrested. She even hinted at domestic abuse!!! I have never in 15 years touched her in anger, never! There have been other issues too but the real kicker was the text message that I intercepted yesterday morning from her "friend" that she "didn't have contact with anymore". She had a million excuses but it was all backpedaling. I simply can't trust my W and have lost respect for her as well. The deceit and selfishness is never ending.
I was really trying but the last week has been extremely revealing about who my W really is. I am not impressed at all. She is still over spending, back on diet pills(even though we have a membership at he health club), and down to working less than 10 hrs a week but can't keep up with the housework. The pattern just keeps repeating. We were arguing over money the other day and her response was that I should work more. FYI, I took her out every Saturday night last month to the tune of almost $800. Any tips on how to handle that sort of thing?
I bought her perfume the other day, give her massages, pillow talk, help out around the house, help with the cooking, active with our sons, etc. I am lost as to what I am neglecting in the M. All is great if she gets to do exactly what she wants. Otherwise she hates me and everything I do. It's like dealing with a split personality. It seems the only solutions are to give in to her or get away from her. HELP!!!
