I have "given up" on her three times in the last several months and each time she has come sprinting back. It is almost eerie. Her discovery of my "friend" seems to have hit the hardest. I think she thought she would always be the WAS and I would be the LBS. Truth be told, I was inches from being the WAS.
The other issue is the bottoming out of the R. I really hope it is bottomed because I can't take much more right now. Both of us have made a commitment to working very hard. We had a tough financial discussion last night. It wasn't great but it went better than in the past. She hates hearing about her over spending as much as I hate saying it. Well then stop it!!!! Right? Time will tell.
I am looking for easy, boring, routine, stabile, quiet, peaceful, etc. A little less drama will help us both to heal. I too see our potential as good but it will take constant improvement on both sides. TBONE
