I'm saying - TBone can't expect things to work out with his W if he has not made that Choice. He needs to a take a step back and figure out what that choice is. Tbone is upset that his FF, that he put all that time into, stabbed him in the back. No crap!!! your married.... BF of FF probably is telling FF same thing. He is M.
All your doing is hurting FF,W,BF and most of all your self. If you're W cheats on you and D you. That is her problem. You won't be the cheater. You do need to think about what you want. Take some time to think. I know I sound tough, I have been thru it and still am going thru it. I'm at the point that I will not take my WAS back until I have made my changes and she has made her changes.
The key here is I need to make life long changes.
