Man t-bone, what drama indeed. You need to take a deep breath and step back for a while...and please, this is why you don't get even a little involved with FF's right now. There is way too much emotional stuff going on here and obviously everyone's emotions are running sky high. You need to sit and have a real heart to heart with W...she is all over the place and probably needs help from a counselor or antidepressents for the time being (maybe she is already on them, I don't know). Everyone needs to calm down and take one day at a time here, take time to get over the FF and her BF calling and talk to W about this sitch.