Yes, my W has reversed course twice today. A very good discussion this morning went very bad very quickly. She emailed me some great articles on self-help and we were talking about changes. All of a sudden she is talking full custody and wanting the house! I don't know what I said, at all. It all seemed very positive, then Whammo! She asked me who was going to file and how soon we could have the paperwork filled out! That was followed by a voicemail less than an hour later saying I can have the house and I don't need to prove to her that she can't afford it. That made me relieved but sad. The tone in her voice was so broken. How can that hurt me after all she has put me through? I am such a softy it is pathetic. I so wish we could be better for each other but I refuse to accept things and she won't change them(all honesty related). Damn, this stalemate stinks. I guess this means I get kicked off the "Piecing" board. Wow, I can't many more days like this. The range of emotions is ridiculous. Take care all, Tbone