I want to trust her but she keeps repeating the same patterns and I have run out of tolerence and understanding. She got home late again last night but I don't care where she was or who she was with. I am that detached. I had several friends stage an intervention last week to help me get my life turned around. Not addiction problems, just my M screwing up my career. It hurt my friends to do it but it has changed the focus from my W to the rest of my life which is very full indeed. It's not that I have shut my W out of my life but she has a long way to go to prove herself. I am not rushing anything nor am I waiting for her. IF she gets herself straightened out she knows where to find me. Maybe I am taking GAL too far. All I know is I feel better now than when I was so obsessed with fixing my M.
