HD, I agree with Choc--do NOT have a real person email her. Can you imagine the "trust" issues that would arise from that ? (and rightly so, I would not look kindly on another woman emailing me about her sex drive and just HOW do you know my husband anyway??)
His suggestion about another bb is a good one, too. They are chock full of messages from women on how to get their man interested again. She may say that these people aren't "real" or whatever, but it's unlikely that so many women out there are experiencing the same exact thing.
So, sorry MrsHD, I do exist. I am indeed a woman, my husband adores me, and I am 34 (well I will be in 2 weeks). I also have 3 little children who suck the very life outta me (literally in D.5's case) and still...I want sex. Why wouldn't I? It's wonderful!
The only thing that could possibly temporarily derail my sex drive is my upcoming colonoscopy.
friggin doctors!
Anyhoo, send her a link to another bb and tell her to read up. Oh and I would definitely relate this comment to your C next week and get her input on it.
