I think Lina's right -- I'm sure there ARE far more of those women out there, right under your W's nose, that maybe she doesn't know about.

It's like guys who brag to each other about their portfolios. I mean, who stands around and offers "Hey, let me tell you about the beating I took last week!"

The more socially-acceptable/fashionable thing for women to do is to artifically reassure each other of "I mean, who has the time or the energy anyway, right??" -- and just rubber-stamp each other's LD.

I'm not saying that all LDs wish they were HD; I'm just saying that LDs can be divided into two groups -- those that are satisfied with their drive, and those who know they would like more, but are rationalizing.

Choc.