Should I, or shouldn't I?

[Lina]

Grrrr. Gender stereotypes = major pains.

I would offer to help, but I'm just 22. I am 100% confident that my H loves me, and definitely want it more than he, but don't meet the over 30 criteria quite yet. :-D

But there are several of us on here who are. I'd say tell her. Send her links to the "My Story" threads of some of the people who do meet them. They're around here, somewhere.

And like Paul said, you probably have someone you know who meets them, but just don't know it. Almost all of my female friends are high drive, and I've spoken with several women who feel that they are the higher drive person between the two of them. Now who, and how to broach the topic with someone of the opposite gender... well, that's a puzzle in and of itself. :-D