I would be happy to correspond via e-mail with your W, but I don't know if that would be advised or necessary. Why don't you just buy her some books written by HDW? Like "Talk Dirty to Me" by Sallie Tisdale or the old classic "Fear of Flying" by Erica Jong. I'm sure I can come up with some more suggestions but I'm one cup of coffee low at the moment.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver