WB, If every two weeks isn't netting you any results, then up the pressure. I know I sound like a bully, but I've found with H that I have to get almost mean and then I can back off and turn back into soft and gentle honeypot. He does not and will not respond to my hints and gentle pressure. He has to be dragged, kicking and screaming, into the conversation.
I should say all that in the past tense, as that isn't necessary these days. But it was in the beginning.
