CeMar, I don’t know why I bother replying to your posts since you never respond, but here goes. I don’t mean to get down on you, but you constantly say things that just rub me wrong. Now you’ve done it again.
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I work out to keep my body in shape specifically for the ladies.


What’s with that? You want to stay in shape for your W – good. You want to stay in shape for you health – also good. You want to stay in shape for yourself – better. You want to stay in shape for “the ladies” – bad. Very bad.

You claim that you’re stuck in your miserable M because of your Christian morals. But you constantly denigrate your wife rather than delighting in the wife of your youth as you’re commanded to do. You refuse to appreciate what God has given you. You complain about what you deserve when you know full well that you deserve nothing. And now you tell us that you’re buffing up for OTHER WOMEN!!!! This would be so wrong on so many levels even if you weren’t trying to hide behind your so-called Christian morals, but when you continue to cite those alleged morals, this kind of thinking is WAY out of line. Do you hear what you’re saying? Can’t you see that this is wrong thinking?


Wildebube