I don't know if I agree with the statement " Along time coming without our knowledge"
Let's face it, we all know our shortcomings and our flaws in the R. I mean we do take 100% of the responsibility for 50% of the problems. It just takes the actions of our WAW to finally get us to do something about it.
I look back at my M and I just now realize that she was saying something to me all the time. Did I hear it. Probably, but we can sometimes be victims to our own denial. Or we hear something and we just didn't comprehend the way it was said.
I know my XW said things to me about my anger issues and I think I was in denial, but I also believe the way she said wasn't as constructive as it should have been.
