I don't know if this is any consolation or not but think about this....
You're W seems to be much more the human being you once knew right now doesn't she? Sure, you two may not be physical right now, but she's calling you, she's answering the phone when you call, she's showing concern, she responds to some physical touch by you etc. I'm wondering if she's been around the squirrel much lately at all....seems like when she's around him she becomes shrewish in her behavior, not like she's behaving right now.
I'm wondering if your behavior is beginning to result in her backing away from him.
