Yesterday, I saw W more than I have in weeks. No R talk, no negative discussions. Late in the eve, we were watching the tube, and she turned to me and said, "you planted the garden like we were going to be here for a while." I said "We are, and I would be happy to spend the rest of our lives here together" She had no reply. Obviously, we won't be able to move before the garden has grown, so I am unsure why she made the statemnt. At least she didn't take that opportunity to say something hurtful.